I guess I'm scared really. When you've been so long on your own, the thought of offering yourself up, as it were, to someone you have never met, is pretty frightening.
At first it seems easy just chat -you can say anything you like. Talk as if the guy was an old friend, flirt a little maybe. But this isn't a good idea. Best to take it slowly and steadily - find out lots about him.
Let him ask questions of you. If he doesn't then he's probably:
- not interested in you
- very busy at the moment
- a supreme egotist
...but don't do what I did - tell him he is able to relate better to chickens than people!
No - that never works...